By ten months I was down to two feeds per day, morning and night. This worked well even with going back to my job working as a recruitment consultant in the city. I was so pleased I could find some time to continue these feeds. I wanted this to be a gradual process like the previous feeds I had dropped. Over a period of a month I spent less time feeding her per side. To replace the skin to skin contact during the day, I became accustomed to wearing my sling and giving extra cuddles.